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Book Resources by Subject



  • Leving, J. Father’s Rights. Basic Books, N.Y. 1997.
  • Osherson, S. Finding Our Fathers. Free Press, N.Y. 1986.
  • Popenoe, D. Life Without Father. Free Press, N.Y. 1996.
  • Pruett, K. The Nurturing Father: Journey Toward the Complete Man. Warner, N.Y. 1987.
  • Scull, C. Fathers, Sons, and Daughters: Exploring Fatherhood, Renewing the Bond.Jeremy Tarcher, Los Angeles, 1992. 
Fathering Websites

Leadership and Healing

  • Brown, Brene', Daring Greatly, Gotham Books, 2012.
  • Cashman, Kevin, Leadership from the Inside Out, Berrit-Koehler Publishing, 2008.
  • Goleman, Daniel, Emotional Intelligence, Bantam, 1995.
  • Quinn, Robert E, Change the World, John Wiley & Sons, 2000.
  • Robbins, Mike, Focus on the Good Stuff, John Wiley & Sons, 2007.
  • Robbins, MikeBe Yourself: Everyone Else is Already Taken, Jossey-Bass, 2009.
  • Robbins, MikeNothing Changes Until You Do, Hay House, 2014.
  • Scott, Susan, Fierce Leadership, Crown Business, 2009.

Male Connections

  • Kauth, Bill, A Circle of Men: The Original Manual for Men’s Support Groups, St. Martin’s Press, New York, 1992.
  • Tiger, Lionel, Men in Groups, Third Edition, Routledge Publishers, New York, 2017.

Managing Emotions

  • Pert, C., Molecules of Emotion: Why You Feel the Way You Feel, Scribner, New York, 1997.
  • Real, T., I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, Scribner, New York, 1997.

Men’s Work

  • Addis, M., Invisible Man: Men’s Inner Lives in the Consequences of Silence, Times Books, New York, 2011. 
  • Betcher, R. & Pollack, W. In a Time of Fallen Heroes. Guildford Press, New York, 1993.
  • Bly, R. Iron John: A Book about Men.Addison-Wesley, New York, 1990.
  • Blum, D. Sex on the Brain. Penguin, New York, 1998.
  • Bly, R., Hillman, J., & Meade, M., The Rag and Bone Shop of the Heart: Poems for Men. Harper Collins, New York, 1992.
  • Bradshaw, J., Healing the Shame That Binds You, HCI Books, Deerfield Beach, FL, 2005.
  • Broniec, R., A Passionate Life: 7 Steps For Reclaiming Your Passion, Purpose, And Joy, Create Space, 2011.
  • Farrell, W. Why Men Are the Way They Are. Berkeley, N.Y. 1988.
  • Gilligan, James, Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic, Vintage Books, New York, 1997.
  • Goldberg, H. What Men Really Want. Signet, N.Y. 1991.
  • Hooks, B., The Will to Change: Man, Masculinity, and Love, Atria Books, New York, 2004.
  • Kauth, B. A Circle of Men: The Original Manual for Men’s Support Groups. St. Martin’s Press, New York, 1992.
  • Keen, S. Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man. Bantam, New York, 1991.
  • Kipnis, A. Knights Without Armor. G. P. Putnam, New York, 1991.
  • Kritsberg, W., Lee, J., & Bliss, S. A Quiet Strength Meditations on the Masculine Soul, Bantam Books, New York, 1994.
  • Lee, J. The Flying Boy: Healing the Wounded Man. Health Communications, Deerfield Beach, Fl 1989.
  • Levant, R. & Pollack, W., Ed. A New Psychology of Men. Basic Books, New York, 1995.
  • Lew, M. Victims No Longer: Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse. Harper & Row, N.Y. 1990.
  • Levinson, D. Seasons Of a Man’s Life. New York, Knopf, 1978.
  • Mansfield, H., Manliness, Yale University Press, New Haven and London, 2006.
  • Mark, R. & Portugal, B. Victories of the Heart: The Inside Story of a Pioneer Men’s Group. Element Books, Rockport, Ma. 1996.
  • Masters, R., To Be a Man: A Guide to True Masculine Power, Sounds True, Boulder, CO: 2015.
  • Miller, S. Men and Friendship. Gateway Books, London, 1983.
  • Moore, R. and Gillette, D., King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine, HarperCollins, San Francisco, 1990.
  • Moore, R. & Gillete, D. The King Within: Accessing the King in the Male Psyche. New York, William Morrow, and Co., 1992.
  • Moore, R., and Gillette, D., The Warrior Within: Accessing the Knight in the Male Psyche, William Morrow, and Company, New York, 1992.
  • Mosse, G., The Image of Man: The Creation of Modern Masculinity, Oxford University Press, New York, 1996.
  • Osherson, S. Wrestling with Love: How Men Struggle With Intimacy. Fawcett Columbine, N.Y. 1992.
  • Stein, J., Man Made: A Stupid Quest for Masculinity, Grand Central Publishing, New York, 2012.


Multicultural Awareness

  • Adams, Maurianne, Bell, Lee Ann, Griffin, Pat, Teaching Diversity and Social Justice, Routledge, 1997.
  • Baber, Asa, Naked at Gender Gap: A Man’s View of War Between the Sexes, Crossroad, N.Y. 1991.
  • Jacobs, Bruce A., Race Manners for the 21st Century, Arcade Publishing, 2006.
  • Kivel, Paul, Uprooting Racism: How White People Can Work for Racial Justice, New Society Publishers, 2002.
  • Kimmel, Michael, The Gendered Society, Oxford University Press, New York, 2000.
  • Kimmel, Michael, Angry White Men: American Masculinity at the End of an Era, Nation Books, New York, 2013.

Raising Boys

  • Gurian, M. The Wonder of Boys. Tarcher/Putnam books, New York, 1997.
  • Nerburn, K. Letters To My Son: A Father’s Wisdom on Manhood, Women, Life, and Love. Novato, Ca. 1994.
  • Pollack, W. Real Boys. Random House, N.Y. 1998.
  • Silverstein, O. and Rashbaum, B., The Courage to Raise Good Men, Viking Press, New York, 1994.
  • Thomas, T, Men Surviving Incest: A Male Survivor Shares on the Process of Recovery. San Francisco, Launch Press, 1989.
  • Weisinger, H, Dr. Weisinger’s Anger Work-Out Book, Quill, N.Y., 1985.



  • Albere, P., Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening, Oracle Institute Press, Independence, VA, 2017.
  • Baer, G., Real Love: The Truth about Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships, Gotham Books, New York, 2003.
  • Chapman, G., The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, Northfield Publishing, Chicago, IL, 2015.
  • Frank, M. and Szymczak, L., Fighting For Love: Turn Conflict Into Intimacy, Porpoise Press, Laguna Nigel, CA, 2016.
  • Gray, J. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Harper Collins, New York, 1992.
  • Hendrix, H., Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, Owl Books, New York, 1988.
  • Jampolsky, G., Love Is Letting Go of Fear, Celestial Arts, Berkeley, CA, 1979.
  • Levant, R. with Kopecky, G. Masculinity Reconstructed: Changing the Rules of Manhood: at Work, in Relationships, and in Family Life. Penguin, N.Y.1996.
  • Real, T., How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, Scribner, New York, 2002.
  • Real, T., The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work, Ballantine Books, New York, 2007.
  • Tannen, D, You Just Don’t Understand: Women and Men in Conversation. Ballantine, New York, 1990.



  • Anand, Margo, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers, Jeremy Tarcher, Los Angeles, 1989.
  • Bearman, Steve, “Why Are Men So Obsessed with Sex,” Elephant Journal, October 13, 2013.
  • Bourgeault, Cynthia, Love Is Stronger Than Death, Praxis Publishing, New York, 2008.
  • Deida, David, Finding God Through Sex: A Spiritual Guide to Ecstatic Loving and Deep Passion for Men and Women, Plexus, 2002.
  • Diamond, Jed, The Warrior’s Journey Home: Healing Men, Healing the Planet, New Harbinger Publications, Oakland, CA, 1994.
  • Goldman, Ronald, Circumcision, The Hidden Trauma: How an American Cultural Practice Affects Infants and Ultimately Us All, Vanguard Publications, New York, 1997.
  • Jordan, Judith, et. al., Women’s Growth in Connection: Writings from the Stone Center, Guilford Press, New York, 1991.
  • Perel, Esther, Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, Harper, New York, 2007.
  • Schnarch, Dr. David, Passionate Marriage: Love, Sex and Intimacy in Emotionally Committed Relationships, W.W. Norton and Co., New York, 1997.



  • Broniec, Rick, The Seven Generations Story: An Incentive to Change Yourself, Your Family and the Planet, Crescendo Publishing, 2015.
  • Jackson, Phil, and Delehanty, Hugh, Sacred Hoops: Spiritual Lessons of a Hardwood Warrior, Hyperion, New York, 1995.
  • Rohr, Richard, From Wild Man to Wise Man: Reflections on Male Spirituality, Franciscan Media, 2005.
  • Szymczak, Leonard, The Roadmap Home: Your GPS To Inner Peace, Create Space, 2009.
  • Thornton, James, A Field Guide to the SoulA Field Guide to the Soul: A Down-to-Earth Handbook of Spiritual Practice, Crown Publishing Group, 2000.
  • Tolle, Eckart, A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose, Penguin Group, 2005.
  • Williamson, Marianne, A Return to Love, Foundation for Inner Peace, Harper Collins, New York, NY, 1992.