Are you the King of Your LIfe?

May 27, 2021 by Rick Broniec
We have an important question for all us men to consider:  Are you the King of your life?

Do you access joy in your life and connection with your family, children, other men, and the world? Do you have a strong sense of your Mission—why you’re here on this planet? If you answered yes to these questions, congratulations!

In our experience of working with thousands of men all over the world over the past 35 years, the two of us, Rick Broniec and Leonard Szymczak, have heard how men are isolated, disempowered, and purposeless. We have witnessed men who are plagued by depression, addictions, anxiety, and relationship issues. Can you relate? Read on for more info!


Crazy Making Mixed Messages About Being a Man: What Can We do about it?

Jun 07, 2019 by Rick Broniec
If you’re like most men, myself included, you are reeling these days.  Reeling from mixed messages about what it means to be male, from rapidly changing sexual mores, from the #MeToo movement’s revelations and demands, from seeming political madness, and from masculine expectations placed on us that are far different from those we were taught in our youth.  For example, men are supposed to be strong yet flexible, stoic and emotionally available, tough but gentle, respectful of women yet the initiators of connection, good providers yet available fathers and partners, staunchly hetero and accepting of all possible orientations and gender identities. We are bombarded daily with these types of mixed cultural messages. The ground beneath us males seems to be shifting quickly on virtually every front. It feels like we are caught in a cultural tsunami.

In an Age of Super Heroes, Where are the Fathers?

May 21, 2019 by Leonard Szymczak

The Avengers Endgame movie that was recently released brought in over a billion dollars the first week. A few of the male Super Heroes had children. This was a sharp contrast to Avengers, The Age of Ultron, where Hawkeye was the only Avenger who was a father. But he left his pregnant wife and two children at home so he could join the team and “save the world.” In Endgame Ironman, Antman, and Black Panther joined Hawkeye as fathers, but they left the caregiving of their children to the mothers while they, yet again, “saved the world.”

This model of fatherhood shows men leaving their children and demonstrating that their work is far more important and that violence is the way to overcome adversaries. Is this the message that we want fathers to convey to their children?

We are Losing Far Too Many Good Men!

Apr 03, 2019 by Rick Broniec
The son of a long-time friend and fellow MKP member died last week of an opioid overdose. Another brother suicided just two weeks ago. My brother’s best friend shot himself in February. Another succumbed to alcoholism recently. I am tired of these tragic events happening to men I care about and to men I do not know personally. I am tired of holding vigil and sending ‘thoughts and prayers’ of support for the families of these lost brothers.  I am sad and angry that so little is being done to support men learning how to be resilient. I want change - and so does Leonard!

Giving Men the Option to Expand Our Palates

Mar 28, 2019 by Rick Broniec

‘Traditional male behaviors' have been recently marked by the American Psychology Association as harmful and limiting to men- and to women and children in their lives. Being isolated, going it alone, being tough and unemotional, competing with other men, being numb and always strong are behaviours associated with this traditional male model. That is not to say that these behaviours are all bad.  To the contrary, many of these qualities that we men are taught from birth (some say from conception) are useful and life-affirming when used consciously and judiciously.  And that is the key, in our opinion. Most of us are taught this traditional model from birth and don’t know any other way. As a result, we don’t have a choice. And that’s the tragedy of traditional maleness.


So, what are the alternatives?  We believe it is the practice of our CLASSICS Model. This model, we have found, again and again, give men healthy alternatives to our old behaviors. These alternatives are life-affirming and life-changing. We believe men who practice Connection to feelings, Loving with an open heart, Authenticity through accountability and integrity, Spirituality, healthy Sexuality, Intentionally creating a mission of service, connection to Community, and expressing their Sovereignty have a much larger range through which to express ourselves. This wider range frees us from the tyranny and limitations of the old model.

Where are All the Good Men... Books?

Feb 25, 2019 by Rick Broniec
Last week, my wonderful friend and co-author, Leonard Szymczak, went into a Barnes and Noble book store to shop.  He asked for directions to the Men's Issues and Personal Growth section.  The clerk guided Leonard to the Social Studies section where there were three shelves of books about women's empowerment, feminism, and growth....and not one book about men or men's personal growth! 

This fact was not a bit surprising to Leonard or me. There is a dearth of books for men's personal growth simply because the market for these books is dismally small.  Men, as a whole, simply are not interested in waking up or growing nearly as much as women. Sadly, we men are taught early on that we are expected to figure things out ourselves, that we are to do this in isolation, that we are never to appear to be weak or to not have the answers and that we are to tough out any issues we can't easily 'win'. These behaviours make up part of what the American Psychological Association has called "traditional masculine ideology", which they have branded as harmful.